Rough weekend

Andre (Tony) Avilar (his real name, as far as I can tell) is a dirty abusive motherfucker. He beat the shit out of Lupe Sunday morning from about 2-5 am and tried to kill her. Jenny and I were babysitting, and Lupe said that she would be back to our house between 2 and 3 am to pick Fatima up. She didn't show and 5 am rolled around, so I called her house because I was annoyed she didn't show. Tony answered the phone and told me his car broke down and that he would call his cousin to come get Fatima. I told him this was bullshit and that I would bring her home. I was thinking at this point that it would take him a couple of hours to get his shit together and come over, so a 10 minute trip to take her home wasn't so bad.

I got off the phone with him and am getting Fatima situated in the car when Jenny comes outside on the phone with Lupe saying that Tony hit her, and that she doesn't need us to call the police or an ambulance. Jenny and I got in the car with Fatima and went to Lupe's. Lupe answered the door, and said Tony ran off after I called. Her face was red and bruised, she had an abrasion on her nose, and there were bruises on her neck. We took her to the hospital.

Anyhow, things are still in turmoil, but she filed a police report and is getting into some housing for battered women. It's all a bit of a cluster fuck, but at least he isn't beating on her anymore.

If you're reading this, please do me a favor. If you should ever run into Andre Tony Anthony Andreas whatever his fucking first name that day is Avilar, let him know what you think about fucktards who beat women. If it's just verbal, that is what I would recommend as I can not advocate violence against anyone, but if things get physical, I won't be there to stop you and won't think any less of you for having done whatever you felt you had to do. We all make mistakes.

I think I said "fuck" a lot in this post. Oh, well.